any average person can say that I’ve gotten my heart broken and it sucks,i have been screwed over several times, I’ve been lied to, & my heart has several scars. But get this at the end of the day, your heart’s still beating which is what matters the most, you lived before all the bullshit, you can live after it.
Honestly, It’s one thing to have your gaurd up, but it’s another to blame your past relationship experiences on your insecurities of being in a new relationship. If you’ve been played & lied to several times that’s life for you, just learn to not trust so easily. If you’ve gotten your heart broken, don’t think that the next guy/girl is going to do the same because truth is NOT EVERY GUY/GIRL is a douchebag/bitch. It’s just the matter of meeting the right person for you. All these experiences people go through they should use it to their advantage, live & learn. Don’t make your past experiences an excuse to not move forward with your life and sit there in self pitty. It’s just not a cute look. If there’s one thing i’ve learned through my experiences is in order to grow and mature you gotta learn to let shit go. fuck people in the past there’s a reason they’re not in your future. they were obviouslyy not good enough for you. so just movee the fuck on time doesn’t wait for anyone. justttsayin.
my perfect type of man.
i want someone who’s caring, loyal, true, honest, happy, handsome,someone with an awesome personality, a GENTLEMAN is a PLUS someone who understands me and my humor, someone that can MAKE ME LAUGH! i want the total romance type of guy. the one that’d send me roses to work just because he wanted to let me know he was thinking about me, the long walks on the beach type of guy. someone whos appetite matches mine. :) i like to play video games so someone who wouldnt mind going a little easy on me when we play COD. someone that could just cuddle with me till i fell asleep while listening to some r&b. someone who’d attempt to cook me dinner. someone that would cater to me only because i know i’d do the same for them. sensitive; but not TOO sensitive because someone has to be the man in the relationship. someone who doesn’t need me by there side 24/7. i’m independent, i need my space & friends too just as much as he would. he has to be smart, and have a genuine heart, & someone who’s adventerous is always a plus. oh yeah & he has to smell good. i <3 a guy with some good smelling cologne (preferably abercombie&fitch ‘fierce’) haha.
only in a perfect world would i ever find a guy who was exactly what i want. but sometimes god doesn’t bless you with things you want he blesses you with the things you need.
explains why i’m single. haha oh well. one dayyyy… :) <3
Oh so happy. :)
“being happy doesnt mean everything is perfect it means you’ve decided to see beyond the imperfections”
For the first time in a LONG time i could honestly say I’m legitimately happy with my life. Sure I don’t have the finest things in life, i don’t have the worlds perfect family, or the perfect friends, my job still sucks, i don’t go shopping as much as I’d like to, and I’m single as can be. BUT despite all that i could honestly say I’m truley, legitimately, genuinely happy with things the way they are. I’ve learned to accept my life for what it is and who’s in it. Every person in my life whether it be someone that has stayed for a long period or even just someone i met God has blessed each and every single person in to my life for a reason, and the people who are’nt in my life are gone for a reason too.& that’s only because the guy above always knows what’s best.
I want to give a special shout out to Miguel, Demario, Lani, Cassie, Nahshon, Angelique, & Anndrea for keeping me sane. don’t know what i’d do w/o you guys <3
INGREDIENTS TO A HAPPY LIFE:
1. love yourself before trying to love anyone else.
2. accept the people in your life & if you don’t want to accept them for who they are DON’T TRY & CHANGE THEM you either deal with it or just let them go. it’s simple.
3. bad day? just remember it’s not the end of the world. tomorrow is a NEW DAY.
4. don’t let one jerk ruin your whole day. BE POSITIVE.
5. do good deeds for others. remember karma is good only if your good.
6. if there’s something that could be better about your life, don’t soak in your tears do something about it. tears will help out a little but it won’t change the situation.
7. last but not least. SMILEEEEEEEEEE :) it’s psychologically proven that when you smile it releases endorphins that make you happy. & smiles are contageous. so spread the love.
